{"id":18985,"date":"2024-07-15T17:30:14","date_gmt":"2024-07-15T15:30:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/?p=18985"},"modified":"2026-01-12T11:03:33","modified_gmt":"2026-01-12T10:03:33","slug":"premiere-fois-club-libertin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/en\/premiere-fois-club-libertin\/","title":{"rendered":"First time in a libertine club: Our instructions for a successful experience"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/en\/becoming-a-libertine\/\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/devenir-libertin\/\">You've become a libertine<\/a><\/strong> and you're looking forward to your first evening out, but the questions are getting in the way? It's perfectly normal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Whether you're a couple, a single woman or a single man,<strong> our guide gives you all the keys to a successful first experience in a libertine club.<\/strong><br>Don't let doubts and questions spoil your first time in a swingers club...<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>TO REMEMBER :&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Discuss your desires and limits with your partner<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Club location (ideally with beginners' evening)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Dress code compliant<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Safe word established<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>State of mind: curiosity without pressure<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_82_2 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-custom ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseprofile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/en\/premiere-fois-club-libertin\/#comment-bien-preparer-sa-premiere-soiree-en-club-libertin-en-couple-ou-seul\" >How to prepare for your first evening in a libertine club (as a couple or alone)<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/en\/premiere-fois-club-libertin\/#les-regles-dor-du-libertinage-a-connaitre\" >The golden rules of libertinage to know<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/en\/premiere-fois-club-libertin\/#premiere-fois-club-libertin-pour-femme-seule\" >First time single women's club<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/en\/premiere-fois-club-libertin\/#premiere-fois-club-libertin-homme-seul\" >First time club libertine single man<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/en\/premiere-fois-club-libertin\/#premiere-fois-club-libertin-en-couple\" >First time in a libertine club as a couple<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/en\/premiere-fois-club-libertin\/#on-repond-a-vos-interrogations\" >We answer your questions!<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/en\/premiere-fois-club-libertin\/#prets-pour-votre-premiere-fois\" >Ready for your first time?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"comment-bien-preparer-sa-premiere-soiree-en-club-libertin-en-couple-ou-seul\"><\/span>How to prepare for your first evening in a libertine club (as a couple or alone)<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large wc-img-info\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/communication-attentes-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-19773\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/communication-attentes-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/communication-attentes-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/communication-attentes-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/communication-attentes-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/communication-attentes-12x12.jpg 12w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/communication-attentes.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Define your expectations before you leave<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The key to <strong>first successful experience<\/strong> lies in the clarity of your intentions. Ask yourself the right questions: are you coming out of curiosity? To observe? To participate?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you are a couple, this <strong>conversation is essential<\/strong>. Take the time to discuss your<strong> your respective desires, your limits<\/strong>A couple aligned on their expectations avoids misunderstandings and makes the most of the evening. A couple aligned on their expectations avoids misunderstandings and enjoys the evening to the full.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you're coming on your own, find out what you're looking for: a festive atmosphere, a chance to meet new people, or simply to discover this no-pressure world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large wc-img-info\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/club-libertin-choisir-club-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-19777\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/club-libertin-choisir-club-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/club-libertin-choisir-club-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/club-libertin-choisir-club-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/club-libertin-choisir-club-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/club-libertin-choisir-club-12x12.jpg 12w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/club-libertin-choisir-club.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Choosing the right libertine club to get started<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Do a little field reconnaissance! <strong>Read the reviews<\/strong>, <strong>discover the <a href=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/en\/events-party\/\">theme parties<\/a><\/strong>and make sure that <strong>the club reflects what you're looking for<\/strong>.<br>Each club has its own atmosphere, and it's up to you to discover it: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>The <a href=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/en\/club-libertin-definition\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">libertine nightclubs<\/a> (\"dry\" clubs)<\/strong> are suitable for those who appreciate music, dance and seduction. Glamorous outfits are the order of the day, and the atmosphere remains festive.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>The <a href=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/en\/spa-sauna-hammam-libertine\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/spa-sauna-hammam-libertin\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">libertine saunas<\/a> (\"wet\" clubs)<\/strong> offer a more hushed, relaxed atmosphere. The approach is generally gentler, and exchanges more natural.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large wc-img-info\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/club-echangiste-dress-code-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-19776\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/club-echangiste-dress-code-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/club-echangiste-dress-code-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/club-echangiste-dress-code-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/club-echangiste-dress-code-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/club-echangiste-dress-code-12x12.jpg 12w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/club-echangiste-dress-code.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">What dress code should you adopt in a libertine club?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Each establishment imposes its own <a href=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/en\/swingers-club-dress-code\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">DRESS CODE<\/a>. Find out before you leave to avoid <strong>unpleasant surprises on entry<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As a general rule, opt for an outfit that makes you feel at home. <strong>attractive and at ease<\/strong>. For men, the <strong>dress pants and shirt<\/strong> are still the best values. For women, <strong>evening gown or elegant ensemble<\/strong>. Avoid casual streetwear (jeans, sneakers).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Take this opportunity to think about everything that could be <strong>useful once on site<\/strong>The club will provide the necessary equipment, such as suitable protective gear (usually supplied by the club).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-group alignwide is-content-justification-center is-nowrap is-layout-flex wp-container-core-group-is-layout-d05cb3ef wp-block-group-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/Icone-Vestiaire-svg-2eme.svg\" alt=\"Icone Vestiaire\" class=\"wp-image-7126\" style=\"width:246px;height:auto\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/Icone-Dress-Code-svg-2eme.svg\" alt=\"Icone Dress Code\" class=\"wp-image-7119\" style=\"width:205px;height:auto\"\/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large wc-img-info\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/limites-claires-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-19774\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/limites-claires-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/limites-claires-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/limites-claires-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/limites-claires-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/limites-claires-12x12.jpg 12w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/limites-claires.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"les-regles-dor-du-libertinage-a-connaitre\"><\/span>The golden rules of libertinage to know<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Consent: a fundamental principle<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/en\/libertine-rules\/\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/regles-libertin\/\">Respecting libertine rules<\/a> and limits is crucial<\/strong>. Libertarianism is based on a non-negotiable principle: <strong>everything is permitted, nothing is obligatory<\/strong>. Each interaction requires explicit mutual agreement. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you are a couple, establish a \"\u00a0<strong>safe word<\/strong>\u00a0The word \"stop\" means \"stop\" immediately, without discussion. This security allows everyone to <strong>feel free to explore while maintaining control<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Practicalities: <strong>a \"no\" or hesitation is always respected.<\/strong> If someone insists despite your refusal, report it to the club staff.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large wc-img-info\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/moderation-securite-club-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-19775\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/moderation-securite-club-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/moderation-securite-club-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/moderation-securite-club-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/moderation-securite-club-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/moderation-securite-club-12x12.jpg 12w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/moderation-securite-club.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Alcohol and lucidity: finding the right balance<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A drink can help you relax, but <strong>keep a clear head<\/strong>. Libertine clubs are places where <strong>your judgment must remain intact<\/strong> for :<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Respect your own <strong>limits<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Perceive those of <strong>other<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Make the most of <strong>experience<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Excessive consumption will spoil your evening and may attract the (unwanted) attention of staff.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/boisson-club-libertin-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-18988\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/boisson-club-libertin-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/boisson-club-libertin-600x400.jpg 600w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/boisson-club-libertin-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/boisson-club-libertin-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/boisson-club-libertin-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/boisson-club-libertin.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Don't rush and let nature take its course<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No need to rush! <strong>Give yourself time to adapt<\/strong>and don't forget <strong>perhaps just as exciting<\/strong> than participate.<br>A first visit to a libertine club is not synonymous with an intimate experience! On the contrary, you need to acclimatize yourself, observe the atmosphere and how the exchange goes between the other participants. Once you're comfortable in this brand-new environment, go for it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"premiere-fois-club-libertin-pour-femme-seule\"><\/span>First time single women's club<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We have dedicated an entire article to the <a href=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/en\/single-woman-libertine-club\/\"><strong>first experience in a libertine club for a single woman<\/strong><\/a>. Here you'll find all our advice on how to get the most out of your visit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Single women are generally very welcome in libertine nightclubs. For a serene first experience:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Give preference to establishments that organize <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/en\/events-party\/?filter_tribe_events_cat=couple-ladies\" target=\"_blank\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/evenements-soirees\/?filter_tribe_events_cat=couple-ladies\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">evenings dedicated to single women and couples<\/a>.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Locate <strong>convivial areas<\/strong> where you can have a quiet chat.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Do not hesitate to <strong>report to staff<\/strong> that it's your <strong>first time<\/strong>They'll make sure you're comfortable.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Testimonials from single women<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Here are the opinions of women who have experienced an evening in a libertarian club for the first time, choosing La Lanterne for this first time:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/maps\/contrib\/112867856249832044741\/reviews?hl=fr\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>Sabrina Leroy<\/strong><\/a><strong>- \u2605\u2605\u2605\u2605\u2605<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\"First experience and it was really an excellent evening. Whether in the restaurant, where we ate very well, or in the club with a very good atmosphere, it was a pleasant time. Very professional and friendly staff. It really makes us want to come back.\"<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/maps\/contrib\/102814963769607205643\/reviews?hl=fr\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>cocodenim jackie<\/strong><\/a><strong>- \u2605\u2605\u2605\u2605\u2605<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\"I joined the club for the beginners' evening, and for a first-timer it was a great success! I loved the atmosphere, the smiles on the waitresses' faces and the joviality of the beginners.\"<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/femme-seules-clu-libertin-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-18992\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/femme-seules-clu-libertin-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/femme-seules-clu-libertin-600x400.jpg 600w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/femme-seules-clu-libertin-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/femme-seules-clu-libertin-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/femme-seules-clu-libertin-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/femme-seules-clu-libertin.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"premiere-fois-club-libertin-homme-seul\"><\/span>First time club libertine single man<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For a <a href=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/en\/single-men\/\">first experience in a libertine club as a single man<\/a>some special features apply:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>The <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/en\/prices\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/tarifs\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">admission fees<\/a> are generally higher<\/strong> than for couples or single women<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>A <strong>impeccable presentation<\/strong> is expected: neat dress, impeccable hygiene<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The <strong>cocktail evenings<\/strong> or libertine afterworks facilitate first contacts in a relaxed setting<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The approach must remain <strong>courteous and respectful<\/strong>libertinage is above all a game of seduction<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For virtual meetings we recommend the <a href=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/en\/wyylde\/\">site libertin Wyylde<\/a>. Register now <a href=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/en\/wyylde-discount-code\/\">using our promo code<\/a> !<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Testimonials from single men<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/maps\/contrib\/102859844435112003343\/reviews?hl=fr\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>Bruno Martin<\/strong><\/a><strong>- \u2605\u2605\u2605\u2605\u2605<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\"Successful first experience, top staff, meal atmosphere, beautiful setting, very clean, very nice clientele. I recommend.\"<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"688\" src=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/hommes-seuls-club-libertin-1024x688.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-18993\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/hommes-seuls-club-libertin-1024x688.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/hommes-seuls-club-libertin-600x403.jpg 600w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/hommes-seuls-club-libertin-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/hommes-seuls-club-libertin-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/hommes-seuls-club-libertin-1536x1032.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/hommes-seuls-club-libertin.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"premiere-fois-club-libertin-en-couple\"><\/span>First time in a libertine club as a couple<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For a first experience in a libertine club as a couple, you need to remain open-minded and <strong>understanding libertine couples<\/strong> and their dynamics. Choose your club according to your expectations, especially those offering <a href=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/en\/events-party\/?filter_tribe_events_cat=couple-ladies\"><strong>evenings dedicated to couples<\/strong><\/a>. Make sure you understand the<strong> DRESS CODE<\/strong> the club and <strong>respect the rules of libertinism<\/strong>. Enjoy the atmosphere in complete safety, with the emphasis on consent and mutual respect. A <strong>clear communication with your partner<\/strong> on your <strong>limits<\/strong> and your <strong>desires<\/strong> is essential for a successful experience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Read more: <a href=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/en\/best-adultere-sites\/\">The best sites for adulterers<\/a> ! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Couples' testimonials&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/maps\/contrib\/112941734891161272754\/reviews?hl=fr\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>Marc Forassiepi<\/strong><\/a><strong>- \u2605\u2605\u2605\u2605\u2605<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\"We were delighted with our first experience. The welcome, the respect, the hygiene, everything was there for us to have a good evening. A treat, we'll be back very soon.\"<\/em><\/p>\n<cite>Marco and Sandrine<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/maps\/contrib\/117022739872913159767\/reviews?hl=fr\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>Gioanni Camille<\/strong><\/a><strong>- \u2605\u2605\u2605\u2605\u2605<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\"It was the first time my husband and I had been to an establishment of this kind. Everyone is really nice, and when we went in, the owner gave us a tour of the whole club. We had a great time!\"<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/couple-clu-libertin-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-18990\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/couple-clu-libertin-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/couple-clu-libertin-600x400.jpg 600w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/couple-clu-libertin-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/couple-clu-libertin-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/couple-clu-libertin-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/couple-clu-libertin.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"on-repond-a-vos-interrogations\"><\/span>We answer your questions!<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">What are the prerequisites for a first experience in a libertine club?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Respect: <\/strong>Be respectful of others, even out of curiosity - observing is acceptable, but avoid disrespectful behavior.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Open-mindedness: <\/strong>Be prepared to see a variety of practices (swinging, mixing, etc.), and refrain from judging others, even if some practices surprise you.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Communication : <\/strong>Clearly discuss your desires, limits and acceptable practices with your partner before the visit.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Having a solid couple: <\/strong>Libertarianism should spice up an already complicit and fulfilling relationship, not repair a couple in difficulty.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Sauna or libertine nightclub, which to choose?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There are two \"main\" types of libertarian clubs: the <a href=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/en\/spa-sauna-hammam-libertine\/\">saunas (wet clubs)<\/a> and swingers' nightclubs (dry clubs). The choice depends on your preferences.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Clubbing :<\/strong> Perfect for those who love dancing and a festive atmosphere. Their glamorous outfits make it easy to get close and play the game of seduction.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Saunas :<\/strong> A cocooning, hushed atmosphere, ideal for chatting and relaxing. Simple outfits put everyone on an equal footing.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">What night should we go?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For a first evening in a libertine club, we recommend you to take part in the <strong>beginners' evenings<\/strong> or <strong>libertine discovery.&nbsp;<\/strong>Our club often organizes this type of evening, find the next one on our page <a href=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/en\/events-party\/\"><strong>Events and parties<\/strong><\/a>.<br>These events are specially organized to enable beginners and the curious to discover the world of libertinage. You'll meet other beginners, as well as experienced libertines who'll be happy to guide you and put you at ease.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Discover also <a href=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/en\/best-cougar-sites\/\">best sites for mature women<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How to behave?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Remain courteous, polite and attentive to your partners<\/strong> and participants. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Gentlemen: <strong>libertinage is all about seduction<\/strong>. If you're just looking for intimacy, this is not the place for you.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>To couples: <strong>the motivations of single men are no more perverse<\/strong> than those of couples or single women. Be understanding and <strong>politely indicate<\/strong> your disinterest if you're not interested.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Am I obliged to have intimate relations with strangers?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>You are under no obligation to have intimate relations<\/strong> on your first visit to a libertine club, nor afterwards. You can simply observe, chat and enjoy, as long as you remain courteous and polite.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Everything is permitted, nothing is obligatory: <\/strong>You can say no and stop at any time. <strong>Your consent is essential and indispensable<\/strong>and that of your partners.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Respect the limits:<\/strong> If someone insists, inform security. Such behavior is frowned upon and may result in exclusion from the club.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">What kind of people do we meet?&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There are all types of libertines. <strong>depends on the clubs<\/strong> and<strong> evening themes<\/strong>. People of all ages can be found here, with a tendency for younger <strong>30-50 years<\/strong>. Visit <strong>20-30 years <\/strong>discover <strong>more and more this universe<\/strong> and we have new young libertines every weekend at <a href=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/en\/\">La Lanterne<\/a>. All participants are <strong>very respectful <\/strong>of others: nothing is imposed, everything is asked for or offered, and if you refuse, everything stops immediately.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"prets-pour-votre-premiere-fois\"><\/span>Ready for your first time?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Thanks to our guide, you now have all the information you need to <strong>an unforgettable first experience<\/strong>. Remember, the important thing is to <strong>have fun and feel at ease<\/strong>. So, <strong>put aside your hesitations<\/strong> and make the most of this new adventure at the turn of a <a href=\"https:\/\/lalanterneclub.com\/en\/events-party\/\"><strong>a libertine evening at La Lanterne<\/strong><\/a> for example...<br><strong>Enjoy your discovery and have fun!<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You've become a libertine and you're planning your first libertine evening, but the questions are getting in the way? It's perfectly normal. 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